Antonio Faccilongo

Interview by Svetlana Bachevanova

Dead Sea, (Palestine), 11/25/2017.
Dweidar Awad (40) is the wife of Zuhair (50) who is a Palestinian prisoner. This is the first time
that Dweidar has gone to the Dead Sea though she lives only 15 minutes from the sea. Her family is very poor and has never had the extra money to pay for the ticket to the beach.

You followed the story of Habibi for five years. How did you hear about the sperm smuggling from Israeli prisons and how did you decide to approach the project? 

In 2008, I went to Palestine for the first time. As my plane landed at Tel Aviv airport, the bombing of the war began. This round of war would later be called "Operation Cast Lead,” the first after the second Intifada. A bloody 22-day lightening war in which more than 1,300 people died. The violence I witnessed in those days deeply affected me.

Once I got home, I continued to follow the developments of the conflict and found that a very large number of men in the Palestinian refugee camps had been arrested. I have asked myself several times what the absence of these men within this community meant and what consequences it could have on the balance of families who already live in a contested territory. So I went back to Palestine to meet them and tell some stories of their daily life, their experiences and their feelings.

The story that most affected me emotionally is the one told in Habibi. A story that I discovered by being in contact with the families of prisoners and getting to know them over the years.

Ramallah, Palestine. A boat handmade by the prisoner Ahed Abu Gholmeh for his son Qais. Ahed is serving a life sentence in prison. 
 It is common among inmates to make handmade items to donate to their loved ones during family visits to prison. These small gestures of affection help prisoners and families feel closer and overcome sadness and loneliness. Photo: Antonio Faccilongo

You have followed the life of Lydia, a Palestinian prisoner’s wife whose son Majd Rimawi was conceived by IVF, since he was an infant. Was it difficult to be allowed to photograph such intimate moments in the Rimawi family? How did you gin their trust?

One of the most significant experiences I have had in making this work was sharing the exhausting journeys to reach the prisons on the day the wives visit their husbands. Thanks to the Prisoner's club, an NGO that assists prisoners and their families, I got in touch with some of the prisoners' wives. In one of these trips I met Lydia Rimawi together with her son Majd. I will never forget Lydia's consoling embrace on the bus. A hug full of love but also of strength and protection, of a proud woman who faces life with pride. I was touched by that gesture, delicate and strong at the same time, and by everything it meant for her, as for all the other women, who find themselves having to raise their children alone.

At first Lydia was afraid to speak to the press for two main reasons. First of all because it was not known how Israel would react to the birth of these children and what consequences there would be for them and the prisoners. And also because she needed time to trust me. The relationship of trust with the Rimawi family changed after meeting with Lydia's brother Mazen, with whom I established a friendship and esteem that allowed me to be accepted.

Beit Seira (Palestine), 07/27/2015. Lydia Rimawi with her son Majd, who was born through IVF, during their journey to reach the prison to visit her husband. She lives in a small village near Ramallah. To reach the prison, sh leaves home at 5:00am, taking a taxi to the main road, where she boards a bus to Ramallah. She goes on a second bus, organized by the International Red  Cross, to the Israeli checkpoint, where she crosses through a border checkpoint on foot. From there, she takes a third bus to the prison gate. After several controls, she’ll meet her husband for 45 minutes.  The long journey, there and back, can take up to 18 hours for a visit that lasts only 45 minutes. Photo: Anyonio Faccilongo

 You have been in contact with some of the long term prisoners, the fathers. What is their motivation to participate in a IVF insemination? Some people see it more as a political act rather than an act of love. What is your opinion?

In my opinion, what prompted these families, prisoners and wives, to have new children is mainly the desire to carry on the family unit and not to surrender to the difficulties of the political and social context. A balance between a feeling of reaction to the political situation and the sweetness with which a man and a woman decide to carry out their feeling of love by giving birth to a child. Furthermore, the Palestinian people keep alive the hope of a resolution of the conflict with the positive prospect of reuniting with their family one day.

While building the book, it was very important for you not to depict the endless Israel-Palestinian war, even though the Habibi love story is possible only in the time of war. Why this was so important? 

Palestine is too often shown only as a place of war and conflict, full of contrast, soldiers, military actions and weapons.

Habibi shows the impact of the conflict on Palestinian families. I felt the need to tell the realities hidden behind the conflict that best help us understand the meaning of living in that place, and at the same time restore dignity to the people who live there.

How has the political situation changed in Palestine since you started working on Habibi and do the changes effect the development of your project?

Unfortunately, in recent years, developments in international politics, such as the recognition by the United States of Jerusalem as the capital of Israel, have only exacerbated the situation, blocked dialogue and made both peoples more frightened. The wall that separates the two peoples every day becomes thicker and taller. In addition to being trapped, people can no longer hear the voices of those on the other side. 

This situation meant that many of the prisoners' families were afraid of being witnesses in my work.
The conditions make people feel that they have to protect themselves from others and that exposing themselves could have negative consequences. Initially, I was disoriented and did not know how to handle the story but, over time, I understood that telling stories that show the normalcy of everyday life is especially important in trying to restore the interaction of people back to normal levels.

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